SocMed activist to all Women who demands respect from Men: "Takpan mo yang dibdib mo at habahabaan mo yang shorts mo" - The Daily Sentry

Thursday, July 19, 2018

SocMed activist to all Women who demands respect from Men: "Takpan mo yang dibdib mo at habahabaan mo yang shorts mo"



 Apple Jolo (Photo from Ms. Jolo's Fb account) | Angono Muncipal Police Station's reminders (Photo grab from Ms. Jolo's post)
List of reminders to prevent rape was published by the Angono Muncipal Police Station and was received with mixed reactions.

Women’s group such as Gabriela condemned one of its enumerations which stated that one must not wear revealing clothes to avoid being raped.

But for social media activist and blogger Apple Jolo, it is only right that women must wear modestly in order to prevent such abuse.


Jolo argued that as a fellow woman herself, she knows that people around her cannot be controlled, thus, she has to be responsible for herself.

She retorted dissenters who claimed that men must learn how to respect. For Jolo, one would have to look for these men’s mothers in order to straighten them up, otherwise one should opt to dress decently so as to avoid uncomfortable and threatening situations.

Photo from Orange County Rape Crisis Center

“Kung ayaw mong nababastos ka o malagay ka sa alanganing sitwasyon, takpan mo yang dibdib mo at utang na loob, habahabaan mo yang shorts mo,” Jolo wrote.

She advised younger women to leave the “bombshell” outfits to mothers who can carry themselves, but while young, females should refrain from wearing revealing outfits lest they come out as “cheap”, rendering themselves vulnerable to perverts who look for something to easily pounce on.

Jolo chastised women who wore provocative outfits saying that it is because of their actions that modest-dressing women are also harassed because the skimpy outfits tend to draw in attention until any female in sight, provocative or not, becomes the subject of interest.

To put simply, these perverts would have nothing to fantasize if women gave them nothing to fantasize about.

If a woman can cover her face with so much make up, then Jolo is sure that that woman can buy something more decent to cover her entire body up.


Had she been a mother of a provocative-wearing child, the blogger disclosed that she would willingly wait for the child by the door and hit her with a broom.

For Jolo, she is simply protecting her own kind, unlike provocative women whom she thinks endangers other females.


Jolo’s full post on Facebook reads:

Oist, BABAE...

May problema ka daw sa number 2 ng guidelines na yan. Alam mo kase babae din ako. At hindi ako engot. Alam ko na hindi ko kayang icontrol ang mga tao sa paligid ko, kaya ako na mismo ang magiging responsable sa sarili ko. Huwag niyong sasabihin sa akin na dapat matuto ang mga lalake na rumespeto. Aba'y hanapin mo ang mga nanay nyan at sila ang kausapin mo. 

Pero kung hindi mo kaya, huwag kang magpaka-diva na nagdedemand ng respect. Kung ayaw mong nababastos ka o malagay ka sa alanganing sitwasyon, takpan mo yang dibdib mo at utang na loob, habahabaan mo yang shorts mo. Hindi mo kaya, mag-bikini ka nalang sa labas. Ganun din yun.

Mapapalampas ko pa yung mga nanay na bombshell magdamit. Keri na nila yun. Pero ikaw na bata pa at mahilig ibilad ang lahat sa tao, hindi ka nakakatuwa. Alam mo ba kung paano ginagawa ang TUYO? Ibinibilad lang yan sa ilalim ng araw at dahil ganun lang kasimple, CHEAP din sa palengke yan. 

Kung hindi kaya ng bulsa ang expensive, dun ka nalang sa mura. Masakit? Well, hindi pa ako tapos. Kase dahil din sayo, dahil sa mga provocative mong pananamit, pati mga babaeng matino nailalagay sa alanganin. Sa bawat beses na pinagpipiyestahan ka ng mga bastos sa daan, nadadamay din sa kagaguhan ng isip ng isang pervert ang mga babaeng may respeto pa sa sarili. 

IKAW din kase ang nagpapasimuno ng lahat. Magiimagine ba ang mga ogag na yan kung hindi mo sila binibigyan ng rason? Lech, ang daming porn site pero mas nag hahanap ng 'in the flesh'. 

Paano...sarap mong sapakin kase. Lalabas ka ng bahay niyo na mukhang nagkulang sa tela ang gumawa ng mga damit mo. 

Photo for illustration purposes only (Photo from CNN Philippines)
Nalulublob mo ang mukha sa sangkatutak na make-up pero matinong damit, hindi ka makabili. Kaya pati mga inosenteng bata, ginagahasa at itinatapon ang katawan pagkatapos pagsawaan. Uulitin ko, kung ako ang nanay mo...abangan kita sa may pinto ng bahay at hahambalusin kita ng walis. Wala akong pake kung masaktan ka pa sa sinabi ko. TOTOO NAMAN TALAGA YAN.

oh...sabihin mo I am shaming my own. Naku hindi. Pinoprotektahan ko pa nga eh. At ikaw na babae pa naman pero nagbibigay sa amin ng dagdag na burden...malawak ang pader ko dito. Ihampas kita for free para matanggal yang helmet mo at matauhan ka.

TOTOO NAMAN TALAGA YAN.

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Source: Apple Jolo | Facebook