Thursday, August 23, 2018

Letting Go to move Forward



One of the reasons why people get sentimental is because memories are the only things that don’t change, when everything does.
Photo from Ask Claire Casey

There are things in life that you can't hold on forever, no matter how much you fight for it.

Sometimes destiny isn’t good, it becomes playful.

When you met someone and learned to love, you thought that it was destiny that made your paths cross. But what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny creates? Making you realize in the end that the person you thought was destined for you wasn’t really meant to stay, but only destined to make you feel love and leave you when you’ve already fallen.

It’s not easy to state a reason when you decide to leave your love. Some might think it’s just an excuse, some might not actually believe, some will just blame you and some will be mad at you. What they don’t see is the fact that it hurts you even more to hurt someone who doesn’t deserve to be hurt, especially when you can’t actually state the reason why you have to leave.

You can never own something that was never yours. So let’s stop gripping on things we expect to last forever.

“Nothing’s Last Forever”
“Forever is a Lie” DAMN! RIGHT?! 

So while you have something in your hand, put in mind that it’s just borrowed, so that someday when it’s gone, it won’t take you eternity just to let it go.
Photo from fearless soul

When your feelings get strong to someone, it’s always wise to stop for a while and give your heart a time to breath, a time to use your mind to weigh the situation based on reason not on emotion. Because the saddest thing that can happen is when one fall in love while the other wants nothing more than friendship.

“Love can sometimes be magic, but magic can sometimes be an illusion.”

There are times when you will wish that you are limited to certain emotions so that you’ll never have to experience pain, never feel betrayed or disappointed, and never get your fragile heart be broken. But the same things mean that you’ll never know how it feels to love and be loved in return.

To have a heart that’s whole but numb or a heart that’s broken but real. (The thought of it kind of scares me.)

Someday we’ll all be looking back to those days we learned to love, get hurt, cry and fight. Maybe when that time comes, we’ll all be laughing at our old dumb selves realizing how stupid we were to stand up for things we knew weren’t really meant for us.

But I guess learning takes time, and mistakes make one’s journey fun. Life is what we make it. Love makes the world go round.  So let’s live, love and take whatever pain it brings.