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Estudyanteng Muslim, ibinahagi ang naging karanasan sa Katolikong paaralan

8:01 PM

 

Larawan mula kay Jomana Lomangc

Isang dahilan ang relihiyon kung bakit minsan ay nagkakaroon ng hindi pagkaka-unawaan at hindi pagkaka-intindihan ng bawat-isa sa isang lipunan dahil na rin sa kanilang magkaibang paniniwala at pananaw sa maraming bagay.


Sa katunayan nga ay dahil sa magkaibang paniniwala ng magkaibang relihyon ay nagpatayo ang mga ito ng kani-kanilang paaraan upang ituro sa mga estudyante ang mga tradisyonal na kultura ng kanilang relihiyon.

Larawan mula kay Jomana Lomangc

Larawan mula kay Jomana Lomangc

Tunghayan ang kwento ng isang estudyanteng muslim na nakaranas ng panghuhusga mula sa ibang tao matapos siyang magdesisyon na mag-aral sa isang katolikong paaran.


Kinilala ang estudyanteng ito na si Jomana Lomangco na lumaki at nasanay sa kulturang muslim kung kaya naman marami ang nagtaka sa kanyang naging desisyon na mag-aral sa katolikong paaralan.

Larawan mula kay Jomana Lomangc

Larawan mula kay Jomana Lomangc

Dahil sa desisyon ni Jomana, marami ang nagsasabing baka maging Kristiyano na siya matapos ang limang taong pamamalagi sa paaralan ng katoliko.


Noong una ay may pagalinlangan si Jomana dahil na rin sa takot na baka hindi siya pakisamahana ng maayos ng kanyang mga guro at kaklase sa kanilang paaralan ngunit dahil na rin sa pagsuporta sa kanya ng kanyang mga magulang ay lumakas ang kanyang loob na ituloy ang kanyang ninanais na makapag-aral sa Unibersidad ng Santo Tomas.


Ang akala ni Jomana na dahil sa kanyang paniniwala at pustura ng kanyang kasuotan na kahit na sinong makakita ay makikilala siya bilang isang muslim ay baka itrato siyang iba ngunit laking gulat ni Jomana na taliwas ito sa kanyang mga iniisip.


Ayon kay Jomana, mula noong unang araw hanggang matapos siya sa kanyang pag-aaral ay ni minsan ay hindi niya naranasan na ituring siyang ibang tao ng kanyang mga kaklase at guro sa nasabing paaralan.


"I have learned many things throughout my stay, but this I will remember in my whole life. To be of a certain fath, may it be Christianity or Islam, is to be Human. And to be human is to respect and accept each other in spite of the difference in our beliefs." ayon kay Jomana.

Larawan mula kay Jomana Lomangc

Ang kwentong ito ni Jomana ay nagpapatunay lamang na hindi batayan ang pagkakaiba ng relihiyon at paniniwala ng isang tao upang mag-iba ang pakikitungo sa kapwa.


Ang mahalaga lang naman ay kailangan marunong tayong rumespeto sa kapwa kahit ano pang estado nito sa buhay.


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Babaeng ikinasal sa manika, nanganak ng manika! Sino kaya ang kamukha?

7:44 PM
Kakaibang 'trip' este istorya ang pinaguusapan ngayon sa social media, kung saan ang isang 37-anyos na babae sa Brazil ay na-inlove at nagpakasal sa isang lalakeng manika at ang mas nakakawindang pa dito, matapos ang kanilang honeymoon ay nagsilang umano ito ng isa ring batang manika.

Siya si Meirivone Rocha Moraes, isang babaeng dumaranas ng matinding stress at pangungulila dahil lang sa pagiging 'single'.




Dahil sa pag-aalala, nakaisip ng paraan ang kanyang ina at hindi nito hinayaan na tuluyang lamunin ng kalungkutan ang anak na si Meirivone.

Ipinakilala niya rito ang manikang si Marcelo, 'love at first sight' ang naramdaman ng 37 taong gulang na dalaga sa manikang yari ng kanyang ina.

Hindi na pinalagpas ni Meirivone ang pagkakataon, kaya naman noong December 2021 ay nagpakasal na sila ni Marcelo.

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)


Isang magarbong pagtitipon na dinaluhan ng 250 kataong binubuo ng pamilya kamaganak at mga kaibigan ng dalawa at sinundan naman ng romantikong honeymoon sa isang beach sa Rio Janeiro, Brazil.

Ayon sa mga ulat, inanunsyo ni Meirivone ang kanyang pagdadalang tao bago pa man sila makasal ni Marcelo.

"He got me pregnant. I took the test – it was positive. I couldn’t believe it," ani Meirivone.

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)


Makalipas ang ilang buwan ay isinilang ang anak ng dalawa, isang batang manika.

Tumagal ng 35 minuto ang nasabing panganganak ni Meirivone na siyang ibinahagi rin nito sa social media via Livestream kasama ang kanyang asawang si Marcelo, isang doctor at isang nurse.

"It was a wonderful day for me, very important, very emotional,” sabi nito.

Ipinagtanggol naman ng bagong panganak ang kanyang kaisang dibdib laban sa mga bumabatikos rito. "He was here in 35 minutes and he is great. It really upsets me when people say this is fake. It makes me so angry"

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)


                                                                                                    Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)


Isang kahibangan at katatawanan man ang turing ng karamihan sa kakaibang istoryang ito ni Meirivone ay patuloy pa rin ito sa pagtatangol sa kanyang napiling pamilya.

"He is a man I always wanted in my life. Married life with him is wonderful. He doesn’t fight with me, he doesn’t argue and he just understands me. Marcelo is a great and faithful husband. He is such a man and all women envy him,"

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)

Meirivone Rocha Moraes | Facebook(public photos)




Dennis Padilla, inulan ng batikos matapos magreact sa emotional farewell ng mga anak ni Ruffa sa tatay na si Yilmaz

7:52 AM

Mainit na naging usap-usapan sa social media nitong nagdaang linggo ang nakatutuwang tagpo ng muling pagkikita ng dalawang anak ni Ruffa Gutierrez at dating asawa nitong si Yilmaz Bektas matapos ang labing-limang (15) taon sa bansang Turkey.

Ngunit tila maraming hindi natuwa ng magbigay ng reaksyon/komento ang aktor na si Dennis Padilla matapos nitong ipost sa kanyang lnstagram ang larawan ng tagpo ng paghihiwalay ng mag-aama ni Ruffa kamakailan. 

"Most precious moments... It broke my heart.. This made me... (crying emoji)", post ng aktor sa kanyang IG. 

Dahil dito, umani ang post ng aktor ng iba't ibang sentimyento at komento matapos ilathala ng anak niyang si Leon Barretto ang isang bukas na liham kung saan isinaad niya ang saloobin sa kanyang ama.

Matatandaan na tatlong (3) araw matapos ang Father's day, June 22, ibinahagi ni Dennis sa kanyang social media account ang hindi umano pagbati sa kanya ng mga anak sa aktres na si Marjorie Barretto na sina Julia, Claudia at Leon, na ngayon ay tila tinanggal na ng aktor sa kanyang Instagram.


Kaya naman hindi napigilan ng ilang netizens na ilabas ang kanilang opinyon matapos ngang i-share ng aktor ang post ni Ruffa Gutierrez.

"Naging mabuting ama ka ba? Tingnan mo muna ang sarili mo baka ikaw ang may mali," bwelta ng isang netizen sa aktor.

Dagdag pa nga isa, “Kulang lang sa pansin ‘yan si Dennis kaya ganyan.”

"Hindi dahil sa ama ka nila kaya may kalayaan kang pahiyain ang mga anak mo. Kung naging responsable kang ama baka di lalayo ang loob ng mga anak mo sayo. Noong una, nasa iyo ang simpatya ko pero sa kalaunan nakikita ko ang totoo mong ugali. Di mo man lang inisip ang mga panlalait ng mga tao sa mga anak mo basta makapost ka lang. Sana inisip mo na sa murang edad ni Julia siya ang sumusuporta sa mga kapatid niya na sana ay responsable (responsibilidad) mo. May kakayahan ka ngang magkaroon ng bagong pamilya at mga anak pero di mo inisip ang paghihirap na dinanas nila. Sa tagal ng pagpaparinig mo kahit kelan di sila nagsalita ng laban sayo. Sana pairalin mo pagiging ama. Sa dami mong anak bat ang tatlo palagi ang pinupuntirya mo," mensahe sa kanya ng isang commenter.

Hiling naman ng iba na sana ay matauhan na si Dennis sa mensahe ng open letter ng anak na si Leon.

"Hindi na bata ang Barrettos para diktahan pa ng nanay about sa pakikitungo sa tatay. It took 15 years para magkita ang mga anak ni Ruffa at tatay nila. Ni isang paninira sa anak walang narinig mula sa dating asawa ni Ruffa. Reading Leon's open letter sa tatay niya, they tried to build a bridge pero palaging sinisira ni Dennis sa mga issue na pinapalaki niya through social media interview. To the point na bashing ang natatanggap ng mga anak niya. Good thing may nagsalita na sa mga anak niya all these years. For the first time, his son called him out. Sana matauhan si Dennis," pahayag ni netizen Rjay sa comment section ni Dennis Padilla.

Narito naman ang bukas na liham na isinulat ni Leon para sa kanyang ama:

Dear Papa,

I’ve been contemplating whether I should write this to you and if this is even the best way to do so. But it seems that social media is your preferred way to reach us, so maybe I can try it too.

“Sorry if I wasn’t able to greet you a ‘Happy Father’s Day: It’s always been an awkward day for us cause we never seem to know where we stand with you every year. I’ve always envied people who never even have to think twice about greeting their dads a ‘Happy Father’s Day!

For the past 10 years, we have been trying so hard to slowly rebuild the bridge you continuously burn every time you talk about our private matters in your press cons, interviews, and social media. Papa, why does it seem like you enjoy hurting your kids in public? Why do you keep posting cryptic posts about us and allow people to bash us on your own Instagram page? Do you think it does not pain all of us to not feel protected by their own father? It’s not that we don’t want to talk to you, but the few times that we do to resolve the issues, you communicate by shouting, cursing, and using hurtful words that traumatize us.

Is public sympathy really more important to you than your own children? Your words have the power to destroy your children, papa.

For years I watched my sisters get torn into pieces because of your false narratives and not once did they ever explain their side nor speak negatively about you in public. It’s exhausting, papa. As the only man in the family, this is me stepping up to protect my sisters.

I need you to know that I want nothing else but to move forward in the safest and healthiest manner possible. I want peace, papa. Can you please stop resorting to public shaming when things don’t go your way?

I long for the day when I can greet you a ‘Happy Father’s Day’ and know that it comes from a place of gratitude and healing.

Leon


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Estudyanteng isinantabi ang ‘dream course’ para sa kursong afford ng magulang, nagtapos na magna cum laude

7:45 AM


“Walang tatalo sa pagmamahal ng mga magulang”. Ito ang katagang madalas nating naririnig. At marahil ito rin ang dahilan sa likod ng mga tagumpay ng karamihan sa atin. Tulad na lang ng kwento ng bagong graduate na estudyanteng ito mula sa Iriga City. 


Kilalanin si Julian Ross Estrella at tunghayan ang kanyang inspiring na storya. 



Sa isang Facebook post, ibinahagi ng binata ang kanyang buhay bilang estudyante at kung paano nya kinaya at nagawang maabot ang mataas na parangal sa kabila ng mga pagsubok at hirap ng kanilang pamilya. 


PROUD SON OF A MECHANIC 


Isang proud na anak ng mekaniko at housewife, nagtapos ang binata sa kursong Psychology at pinarangalan bilang magna cum laude. Ito ay kahit hindi ang naturang degree ang kanyang ‘dream course’ dulot ng kakulangan sa pera. 


“My father is a mechanic. My mother is a housewife. Both of them never got the chance to finish their degree, but at this moment, they made it possible for their 4 children to have that chance.” pagsisimula nya. 


Lumaki mula sa payak na pamumuhay at may mga magulang na kapwa kapus-palad, maagang namulat sa kahirapan si Julian. Gayunpaman, dahil sila ay salat sa pera at sa mga materyal na bagay, nagbigay daan ito sa nag-aalab na kagustuhan ng binata na makawala sa ganoong estado at maiahon ang pamilya. 


Sa murang edad, batid ng lalaki na sa pamamagitan ng kanyang edukasyon ay posibleng matupad ang kanyang hangarin na ito. Subalit hindi sa paraang gusto nya. 


THE DREAM COURSE



Malaki ang pagmamahal ni Julian sa sining, kaya naman nais nya sanang i-pursue ang Art School noon sa kanyang pagkokolehiyo. Ngunit sa kasamaang palad, hindi tugma sa kanyang pinapangarap at pinaka inaasam-asam na kurso ang kakayahang pinansyal ng kanilang pamilya. 


“That’s why maybe instead of dreaming myself into Art School, I resorted to Psychology.” aniya.


Kinailangan pa umanong ipaliwanag ng maigi sa kanya ng kanyang mga magulang kung bakit ang kurso lang na ‘afford’ nila ang maaari nyang kunin sa pagkokolehiyo. 


“I remember being sat at a table and having to be explained everything about why I had to choose something we can afford in college.” pag-alala nya. 


“There's a difference between finishing any degree and finishing a specific kind of degree you want for yourself. The first one was the dream of any realistic parents, and the second one was the dream of any fearless 12-year-old dreamer.” dagdag pa ni Julian.


Dahil maaga syang namulat sa kanilang estado ng pamumuhay, naintindihan nya kung bakit sila humantong sa ganoong sitwasyon kung saan kailangan nyang mamili at isantabi ang pangarap para sa mas praktikal na desisyon. 


Pagpapatuloy nya, “As the youngest, I have always been burned by the fact that my older brothers and my older sister had to adjust their dreams just for their younger siblings to go to school so no one stops and becomes the sacrificial lamb.”


“As a child being confronted with this reality, my inner artist was grieving. I was struggling. I love art, it has always been my first love. But I realized some talent is never destined to be a career, and I hit that truth–rock bottom. This situation has forced me to think of it this way–every time my parents overexplain our financial situation, about why my supposed dream of College is expensive, they’re making sure that I’m seeing the reality of our household.” kwento ng bagong graduate na estudyante.


Ngunit kahit ganoon, malawak ang naging pang-unawa ng binata sa sitwasyon ng kanilang pamilya, kahit pa ang nakasalalay na ay ang kanyang pinakamamahal na pangarap - bagay na hindi ginawa ng magulang para hadlangan ang gusto ng kanilang pinakamamahal na anak.


“Truth is, my parents never clipped my wings; Instead, they didn’t want to see a child fly so high yet fall so hard on his expectations.” saad ni Julian sa naturang post. 



POVERTY CAN NEVER STOP A DREAMER


Pero hindi natatapos doon ang kanyang pangarap. Malaki ang paniniwala ng binata na hindi kayang tuldukan ng pagiging hikahos sa buhay ang mataas na pangarap at nag-uumapaw na pagpupursige sa puso ng mga taong tulad nya. 


Kaya naman noong sya ay makatungtong na sa kolehiyo, walang sinayang na oportunidad si Julian. 


Payo nya sa mga estudyante na kapwa pinagdaraanan ang mga pagkakataon na katulad ng mga dinanas nya, huwag nilang hayaang pigilan ng pagiging mahirap ang kanilang malalaking ambisyon at hangarin sa buhay. 


“If you are out there struggling financially, please don't let that diminish the vastness of your dreams and ambitions. They are the only thing that doesn't have taxes these days. Let it define your hard work. Let it define your character.” pagdidiinan ni Julian.


“Although I wasn't able to pursue my dream course, my light didn't dim, nor have I been bewitched by my fate.” pagmamalaki ng binata. 


THE DREAM HAS EVOLVED


Hindi man pinalad si Julian na ituloy ang art school na syang first love nya, hindi ito naging dahilan para hindi sya magpatuloy sa buhay. At lalo’t higit, hindi ito naging dahilan para hindi sya maging magaling sa klase sa kanyang kursong kinuha. 


“I started to redefine the concept of dreaming–It is not just wishful thinking every kid has for themselves.” ika nya.


Mulat sa katotohanan, aminado ang binata na ang ibang leksyon sa buhay ay mas natututunan sa pagkabigo kumpara ng sa pagkapanalo. 


“But some learnings in life confront you better when you fail than it is when you Win” ani Julian.


“I was a supposed Art student but the financial demand is hard to meet. Went on and tried Civil engineering, but I did not pass. I only have had a few choices because when you are poor you don't get much of privileges to support those choices. I firmly believe that Psychology wasn't a choice, it was destiny.” dagdag pa nya. 


Bigo man makuha ang gustong kurso, naging rason ito kay Julian para mas lalo pang magsumikap at magpursige sa buhay. 


“Yes, I was the usual nerd who stayed up all night studying for exams and paid much attention to how can I excel in Psychology. I joined and tried everything in college and hustled up to get some recognition for my hard work. I was competitive. I was the student who will raise his hands three times in a row to make an impression, and I do not apologize for it because my parents were not ashamed to borrow money for my education.” pagkekwento nya.


Proud sa kanyang mga magulang na pawang ginagawa ang lahat masuportahan lang silang apat na magkakapatid, walang pinalagpas at sinayang na oras si Julian para suklian ang hirap at pagod ng kanyang nanay at tatay. 


“My mother is out there doing laundry and at the same time preparing meals with her calloused hands, and my father, under the heat fixing someone else's cars with his bruised oiled hands. There was no stability in their work. Hence, there was no room for me to lay back and do the bare minimum given the fact that I was born to this kind of parents. “ aniya.


Araw-araw man madungisan ng grasa at langis ang mga kamay ng kanyang tatay na mekaniko kakakumpuni ng mga sasakyan ng ibang tao, araw-araw man masugatan ang mga kamay ng kanyang nanay sa paglalabada, alam ni Julian na sulit lahat ng hirap nila dahil bilang isa sa kanilang mga anak, ginawa ni Julian ang lahat ng kanyang makakaya bilang estudyante upang maging deserving sya sa lahat ng kanilang mga sakripisyo. 


Basahin ang kanyang buong Facebook post:


“GANITO MANGARAP, KAMING MAHIHIRAP”


This is a long read, but I hope you can relate down to finish.


My father is a mechanic. My mother is a housewife. Both of them never got the chance to finish their degree, but at this moment, they made it possible for their 4 children to have that chance.


I, out of 4 was the last child to finish a degree. I often contemplate that as a child of an underprivileged household, my dreams were never just about myself, but of my family–my parents especially. Hence, as a student, every day for four years I carried the dream of the mechanic and the dream of the housewife.


For dreaming is such a beautiful word for a child, I was never inhibited by my parents to dream as long as I can, as long as how my words could end, and as long as I am still young enough to be blinded by our socioeconomic reality.


At 12 years old, there is so much freedom and liberation in having dreams and being able to retell them to your friends, your teachers, and yourself with no limits. Not until you hit the age of consciousness–where expenses have to be made, and bills needed to be paid–” You can dream, but only if you have the means to reach that dream. You can paint a beautiful portrait, but only if you can afford to buy the paint. “

That's why maybe Instead of dreaming myself into Art School, I resorted to Psychology.


I remember being sat at a table and having to be explained everything about why I had to choose something we can afford in college.

There's a difference between finishing any degree and finishing a specific kind of degree you want for yourself. The first one was the dream of any realistic parents, and the second one was the dream of any fearless 12-year-old dreamer.


As the youngest, I have always been burned by the fact that my older brothers and my older sister had to adjust their dreams just for their younger siblings to go to school so no one stops and becomes the sacrificial lamb.


As a child being confronted with this reality, my inner artist was grieving. I was struggling. I love art, it has always been my first love. But I realized some talent is never destined to be a career, and I hit that truth–rock bottom. This situation has forced me to think of it this way–every time my parents overexplain our financial situation, about why my supposed dream of College is expensive, they’re making sure that I’m seeing the reality of our household.


Truth is, my parents never clipped my wings; Instead, they didn’t want to see a child fly so high yet fall so hard on his expectations.


That’s why maybe one of the most celebrated virtue is “contentment”–having to see happiness in what is only provided and appreciating small things. But I have always conflicted with the idea of contentment as a form of passivity, especially because I'm outpouring of passion, and drenched in so many ambitions. I've always believed that being ambitious and being contented can co-exist in the same light. Contentment didn’t stop me from thinking “what ifs.” And pushing myself to at least try at any opportunities that come my way.


Hence, If you are out there struggling financially, please don't let that diminish the vastness of your dreams and ambitions. They are the only thing that doesn't have taxes these days. Let it define your hard work. Let it define your character.


Although I wasn't able to pursue my dream course, my light didn't dim, nor have I been bewitched by my fate.


The day I was confronted with my fading dream, the birth of a new self embodied me. I lost my dream but I gripped myself even more.


I started to redefine the concept of dreaming–It is not just wishful thinking every kid has for themselves. But for a grown adult like me, dreaming is a constant redefinition; A jigsaw puzzle with missing pieces.


So where are the missing pieces?


From your past,

From your family,

From your friends,

From your teachers,

From your exes,

From your failures,

From triumph,

From denials,

From your childhood

From strangers,

From yourself.


Each of these aspects has something to give you a puzzle piece. It is up to you how you place each of them. Do your family and friends take a bigger part? Or do strangers give you more of that pieces?


In the end, it is all up to you to gather that pieces.


I remember my exes being supportive of my dream. And how many times I was made to believe they could be part of it–but we didn’t end up together. It was rough years of heartache and denial but also years of redeeming and knowing the right way to be loved.


So what’s the puzzle piece they have given me? Simple. Self-worth.


I learned that your dreams are only yours to have no matter how many times you forecast them to people who will eventually forget you. Remember that you can reunite with people who left, but your dreams ahead, are the one's worth meeting for.


To make dreams come true, you will be put into a cycle of failures and you will have the toughest time of your life–

getting bruised,

getting sick,

getting unmotivated,

getting heartaches

Getting financially shortened.


But some learnings in life confront you better when you fail than it is when you Win.


I was a supposed Art student but the financial demand is hard to meet. Went on and tried Civil engineering, but I did not pass. I only have had a few choices because when you are poor you don't get much of privileges to support those choices. I firmly believe that Psychology wasn't a choice, it was destiny.


So here it comes Psychology.


I have become more unapologetic given the fact that everything I do, is a result of my past frustrations. Yes, I was the usual nerd who stayed up all night studying for exams and paid much attention to how can I excel in Psychology. I joined and tried everything in college and hustled up to get some recognition for my hard work. I was competitive. I was the student who will raise his hands three times in a row to make an impression, and I do not apologize for it because my parents were not ashamed to borrow money for my education. My mother is out there doing laundry and at the same time preparing meals with her calloused hands, and my father, under the heat fixing someone else's cars with his bruised oiled hands. There was no stability in their work. Hence, there was no room for me to lay back and do the bare minimum given the fact that I was born to this kind of parents.


“Remember you are poor, you need to double your hard work to be seen, heard, and succeed. “The world is unfair for us who don't have financial stability. You will constantly feel defeated and outshined by others only if you compare yourself to them. The only comparison that you should be making is “yourself “ and “the self you badly needed to be.”


My 12-year-old self didn't reach his dream because he deserved so much better at 22.


My puzzle pieces are halfway finished.


As I said, Psychology is my destiny, but to finish it, was a dream.


Julian Ross D. Estrella

MAGNA CUM LAUDE

Son of a Mechanic and Housewife

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Kwento sa likod ng larawang kuha ng isang anak kasama ang kanyang Ina, nagpaluha sa mga netizens

7:36 AM


Ang posisyon at trabaho ng pagiging Ina na siguro ang siyang pinaka mahirap sa lahat, mabigat, sakit sa ulo at walang katapusang responsilidad sa buong mundo, ngunit sila ring mga 'ilaw ng tahanan' ang walang sweldong natatanggap at walang hinihinging kapalit sa araw-araw nilang sakripisyo para sa buong pamilya, gayunpaman, bihirang napapahalagahan.  


Tunay na sakit sa ulo siguro para sa karamihan ng mga Ina ang dami ng kanilang inaasikaso, hindi mabilang na mga iniisip sa araw-araw na mga suliranin at problema ng pamilya. 


Kaya ang iba sa sobrang pagka strëss at pagod ay hindi na nakayanan pang dalhin ng kanilang puso't isipan ay humantong sa pagkawala sa kanilang tamang pag-iisip, at kung hindi pa maaagapan ng agarang pagpapagamot ay posibleng humantong sa permanenteng pagkasira ng kanilang katinuan.


Katulad nalang ng isang nakakapanlumong tagpo na ipinost ng isang anak na si Poland Diosana na kumurot sa puso ng mga netizens. 



Ibinahagi niya ang larawan nilang dalawa ng kanyang pinakamamahal na Mama at kung titignan tila isang pang-karaniwang tagpo lamang ang mga nasa larawan, ngunit lingid sa kaalaman ng iba, hindi na siya kilala pa ng kanyang sariling Ina. 


"Bahala nang hindi mo na ako nakikilala, basta ako kilala parin kita. I love you Ma❤️ 


Kuha ang picture nila sa gilid ng kalsada kung saan doon natagpuan ni Poland ang kanyang Ina at tila parang nagpapicture na lamang siya sa kanyang Ina na kahit anong pakilala niya'y hindi na siya nito naaalala. 


Makikita rin sa naturang larawan na may mga katabi rin itong mga tao na tulad niya marahil ay doon at kung saan-saan nalang napapadpad. 



Marami sa mga netizens ang naawa at nagbigay ng kanilang mga suhestiyon na maaaring gawin ng pamilya sa sitwasyon na sinapit ng kanilang Ina, ngunit ayon pa kay Poland ninanais nilang isama pauwi ito ngunit kahit anong pilit ay ayaw nitong sumama.


"Maraming salamat sa lahat ng mga tao na nagpakita ng kanilang concern sa kalagayan ng aking Mama. Regarding kay Mama kung bakit hindi namin siya mapauwi sa bahay dahil siya na mismo ang ayaw sumama at isa pa, hindi na niya talaga kami nakikilala," 


Umani din ng paghanga si Poland dahil sa kabila ng sinapit ng kanyang Ina ay hindi niya ito ikinahiya bagkus ay gumawa pa ng paraan para sa kabutihan ng Ina.


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Dennis Padilla umaming nagkasala at gustong makapiling ang mga anak nila ni Marjorie

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Sa pamilya, normal na ang minsanang hindi pagkakaintindihan, bangayan at tampuhan ang mahalaga hindi nawawala ang respeto at nananaig parin ang pagmamahalan sa bawat isa. 


Ngunit hindi lahat ng pamilya nabiyayaan ng maayos at magandang pagsasama, may mga pagkakataong kahit anong pilit buohin ng dating masaya at puno ng pagmamahalan na pagsasama ay hirap at malabo ng maibalik.  


Katulad nalang ng naging sitwasyon ng relasyon ng beteranong komedyante na si Dennis Padilla at sa mga anak nito sa dating asawa na si Marjorie Baretto.



Naging mahirap sa kanila na dating isang buong pamilya ang ngayong pinagdadaanan na hindi pagkakasundo at tanging hangad lang marahil ay magkaayos. 



Naglabas ng isang sulat si Dennis sa kanyang Instagram account kung saan doon inilahad niya na isang malaking karangalan para sa kanya ang pagiging Ama niya kina Julia, Claudia, at Leon Baretto. 


"It allowed me to touch the grace of God even for a moment and to see my love made flesh,"  


Aniya nakakagawa man siya ng mga kasalanan sa mga anak, ngunit lahat ay kanya ng pinagsisisihan. Maraming rin mang mga pagkakataong wala siya sa tabi ng mga anak na ngayo'y usap-usapan ang hindi maayos nilang relasyon ay nananatili parin sila sa kanyang puso.  


"Sometimes in life there are things that we will never understand why it happened,"


Nagsisisi din daw siya sa mga panahong pinalagpas lang niya at  ngayo'y tanging hiling nalang niya'y makapiling ulit ang mga anak.  


"In the end, I regret all the moments I let slip by. I regret all the things I hid my feelings from you. If I could have but one wish I would love to spend sometime with you. After all there is not much more to life than that,"


Headline ng balita ang naging pahayag ng kanyang anak na si Leon laban sa kanya matapos ipost ni Dennis sa kanyang Instagram ang mga larawan ng mga anak at pinaalalahanan ang hindi nila pagbati ng kanya noong Father's Day.


 "Sorry if I wasn't able to greet you a 'Happy Father's Day'. It's always been an awkward day for us cause we never seem to know where we stand with your every year," 


"Papa, why does it seem like you enjoy hurting your kids in public? I want peace, papa. Can you please stop resorting to public shaming when things don’t go your way?” 


Matatandaang inihayag din ng kanyang anak na si Julia Baretto ang di umanoy nakakatraumang karanasan sa naging relasyon nito noon sa kanyang ama. 





“Before, when we would speak on the phone, you wouldn’t have the best tone and the best choice of words and that scarred, traumatized and scared me,” sabi ng aktres.


“I was fighting so hard for our relationship despite all the words thrown at me by my own dad,”


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Source:  Dennis Padilla IG

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Kilalanin ang babaeng nagpapatibok ngayon sa puso ng aktor na si Dennis Padilla

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Natagpuan ng aktor comedian na si Dennis Padilla, 60, ang kanyang true love sa piling ng Filipino-Australian partner na si Linda Gorton, 37.
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit: PEP

Labing apat na taon na ang kanilang relasyon.

Sa isang article ng PEP.ph (Philippine Entertainment Portal) noong 2020, ikinuwento ni Dennis kung papaano sila nagkakilala ni Linda noong 2008.

"I had a dinner with a friend. And then this friend had another friend na in-invite. Ito na nga si Linda.

"We met through a common friend. E, di okay naman kami.
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner

"Nagbabakasyon siya dito from Australia. Niligawan ko habang nagbabakasyon siya rito."

Noong panahong iyon, 46 years old si Dennis at 23 years old naman si Linda.

Nahulog kaagad ang loob ng dalawa sa isa’t isa. Ngunit dahil sa ibang bansa nakatira si Linda at nag-aaral pa siya, kailangan niyang bumalik sa Australia.
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner
 Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner

Ani Dennis, "So sabi niya, 'Papaano ito? Matatapos itong relationship natin dahil babalik na ako sa Australia.'

"Sabi ko, 'No, December, before Christmas, I'll visit you and stay there until my birthday in February.'

"So siyempre, nag-save muna ako ng baon ko, ng pamasahe... So, nagtuloy ang relationship namin."

December 2008 nang magtungo si Dennis sa Australia.

Aniya, "I stayed there for three months. I left February rin, and then nag-work na muna ako."
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner
Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner

Mula noon ay hindi na raw pinakawalan pa ni Dennis si Linda.

Pag-uwi niya ng Pilipinas noong February 2009, nagtrabaho raw muna si Dennis ng isang buwan.

Pagkatapos ay bumalik agad ang aktor sa Australia mula March hanggang July 2009.

Doon na raw kinausap ni Dennis ng masinsinan si Linda tungkol sa totoong pupuntahan ng kanilang relasyon.

"Then July 2009, I convinced her to go back with me. Sabi ko, 'If we will be together, it's better na dito na sa Pilipinas.'
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner

"Sabi ko, 'Number one, I have a stable job in the Philippines. Number two, I'll be earning more.'

"Kasi kung regular jobs sa Australia, pwede na rin pero di siya ganun kalaki. So, nag-decide na rin siya to join me here.

"The rest is history."

Kwento ni Dennis, hindi naman raw naging hadlang ang 23-year age gap nila ni Linda sa kanilang pagmamahalan.

Ang pagbibigayan nila sa isa’t isa ang nagpatibay sa kanilang relasyon.
Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner

Sa kabila ng mga pagsubok na pinagdaanan nilang dalawa, hindi raw siya iniwan ni Linda.

Lahad ni Dennis: "On her part, it would be a lot of patience.

"Alam mo naman ang buhay ng artista, up and down financially and career-wise.

"Number two, up and down din ang temper ko. Kasi pag pagod, siyempre iba yung pressure sa trabaho ko. Minsan mainit ang ulo mo.

"Kailangan niya ng mahabang patience. And on my part, I'lI have to control my emotions a lot of times kasi I'm getting older na rin."

Sa tagal ng kanilang pagsasama, hangad ni Dennis na wala nang makakabuwag pa sa kanila ni Linda.
Dennis Padilla and Linda Gorton / Photo credit to the owner
Dennis Padilla, Linda Gorton and their children / Photo credit to the owner

Umaasa siyang si Linda na ang kanyang true and lasting love.

"Yes, I hope eto na nga yun," napangiting sabi ni Dennis.

Dagdag niya, "Kasi 58 na ako. Parang nasa last card na ako ng buhay ko."

Biniyayaan sina Dennis at Linda ng dalawang. Ang kanilang panganay na si Gavin ay 10 years old at ang bunso nilang si Maddie ay 6 years old.
Dennis Padilla, Linda Gorton and their children / Photo credit to the owner
Dennis Padilla, Linda Gorton and their children / Photo credit to the owner

Mayroon namang 15-year-old daughter si Linda na si AC. Itinuturing na rin itong anak ni Dennis.

Talaga namang proud father si Dennis sa pito niyang anak.

Aniya, “I have seven children with three mothers."

Dalawa ang anak ni Dennis sa unang asawa niyang si Monina Gatus—sina Dianne, 32, at Luis, 31.

Mayroong tatlong anak ang aktor sa ex-wife niyang si Marjorie Barretto—sina Julia, 25, Claudia, 23, at Leon, 19.


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Source: PEP