Matapang na naglabas ng sama ng loob ang anak ni Ruffa Gutierrez na si Lorin Gutierrez sa mga taong bumabatikos sa kanila matapos nilang magpunta sa Istanbul kamakailan.
Lorin, Ruffa and Venice / Photo credit to the owner
Kasamang nagpunta ng Turkey ni Lorin noong Hunyo ang kapatid na si Venice upang muling makita at makasama ang amang si Yilmaz Bektas makalipas ang 15 taon.
Sa kanyang vlog sa Youtube, ibinahagi ni Lorin sa mga netizens ang reunion nilang mag-aama. Aniya, marami raw ang natuwa at na-excite sa kanyang 28-minute video.
Ngunit kung mayroong mga natuwa sa muling pagkikita nila ng kanilang ama, siyempre mayroon din mga netizens na puro ka-negahan at pangbabatikos lamang ang alam.
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| Venice, Ylmaz and Lorin / Photo credit: Lorin Gutierrez |
Ruffa, Lorin and Venice / Photo credit to the owner
“As if you know everything or as if it’s so simple, and this is this and that is that. It’s really not black and white.”
“There are a lot of people giving theories or negative opinions and blah-blah-blah, whatever. Usually, I shrug off all, like, negativity or whatever because, like you know, it’s always gonna be there,” aniya pa.
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
Pakiusap ni Lorin, sana raw ay maging sensitibo naman ang ibang tao sa pakiramdam ng kanilang kapwa at tigilan na ang pagbatikos sa kanyang pamilya.
“We decided to share this part of our lives with you because obviously the split between my mom and dad was very public and I know that comes along with it.”
“But, please, like, if you can leave a hate comment on any other piece of content that I produce, and you can say whatever you want about any other aspect of my life.”
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
Ruffa and Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
“But when it comes to this, especially like me seeing my family again, please, just be careful and be sensitive of what you do comment.”
“Because this is possibly the most monumental moment of my life that I decided to vlog and share with the world. So, it’s a bit intimidating to put such a personal aspect of me out there,” paliwanag ni Lorin.
Dagdag pa ng dalaga, gusto raw niyang magbigay inspirasyon sa lahat ng mga anak na katulad niyang nawalay sa kanilang mga magulang at huwag mawalan ng pag-asa na muling makapiling ang mga ito.
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
“I’m not really that much of a public person, especially about my personal life. I keep that very private.”
“There were definitely moments in my life where I was convinced I didn’t know when I was gonna see my father’s side again.”
“The fact that suddenly I’m at a point where I’m on good speaking terms with my father and my father’s side, and him and my mom are now entering this new chapter of co-parenting both me and my sister…” aniya pa.
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
Lorin / Photo credit to the owner
Dagdag pa ni Lorin, “I want you to know that it is possible to heal those relationships, it is possible to move forward, it is possible to grow even if it feels like it’s impossible."
“The right people will come back into your life in God’s perfect timing. Obviously, there’s a lot of hurt in 15 years, but my mindset is that the past is the past.
“There’s really nothing we can do to alter or change it and I’m not the type of person to dwell on the 15 years, but instead, focus on the next 15 years,” pahayag pa ng dalagang anak nina Ruffa at Yilmaz.
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Source: Bandera Inquirer
